Dear Clara and Family, There are no words that can adequately convey what you and your family are going through at a time like this. We are truly sorry for the loss of a husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend to many. It has undoubtedly been a long and challenging stretch of time but you've been together as a family and that brings strength. The days ahead will at times challenge you so lean on those around you for support. Cherish your happy memories of your Dad. It's probably really hard to think past what has happened the past few days but with time those incredible happy memories will purcolate to the surface more often than the sad ones. It takes time, We wish we could be there with you. Take care of each other. Diane & Joel (Guelph)

My deepest sympathies to the extended Lavandier clan. I have thought about Wilfred a lot over the last week. I will never forget how he first welcomed me into the home like I was an old friend. He had a special talent for making visitors feel at home and for making me laugh. Despite our different backgrounds we had a lot in common when it came to opinions on all manner of topics and I loved how he was like an open book with his thoughts, feelings and emotions. He had an immense amount of pride in his family and the life that he had built and deservedly so. I regret that my travels didn't carry me to West Arichat more often for a few more visits, games of cribbage (which I usually lost) and tours of the shed. He is gone too soon but my memories of Wilfred are still vivid and I will always cherish them.

Dear Deloris and family ,please except my deepest sympathy on your loss. May God bless you all.

Sending our deepest condolences to the family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. From Wendy, Margaret and family

Hi Delores, We're travelling in Nevada, but Karen e-mailed about Wilfred. We are saddened, and extend sincere condolences to you and your family. I met Wilfred in the late 70's; and got to know him very well when he agreed to work with us. I very much enjoyed and appreciated his humour and frindship. Wilfred always talked about you and the kids(and of course the grand kids, during the last several years). He was a great family man; and I know you all miss him greatly. Our sincere sympathy, and we hope to see you later in the month. Loui & Mary Digout

My Dear,Delores,Clara,Nicole,Rene and Rhea.There are just no words at a time like this and no greater loss than a loved one.Just know that you are all in our hearts and prayers.Knowing that Wilfred (husband/father)is in a better place now where there is no pain and suffering.May God Bless you all and know you will not be alone during these very difficult days to come.

Even though we lived in NB, I have very fond memories of my childhood when we would spend time each summer with our relatives in Cape Breton. I do remember spending some of that time with Uncle Wilfred, Aunt Delores, and my cousins Clara, Nicole, Rhea and René. To this day, I always remember how Uncle Wilfred had the knack of telling you a story and making you laugh until you were in tears.

Our loving thoughts,

Mackenzie, Riley, Carolyn and Michel

When I was 16, I started deer hunting.Not far from home so I could go before and after school.By seeing the deer heads on my wall know I love deer hunting.Well one evening I went out hunting behind home.That evening just before dark, out came a doe.I was so excited! BOut came the doe and I shot.She ran off a bit then i waited for her to bed down and my season was over.But then I followed her trail but she got up and ran.The next morning I tracked her again but lost the blood trail,damn!So the next day Wilfred came over with his little single shot 30-30 and his old dog muckachow.He helped me search and search,until dark,but no deer.That was my first deer but she got away.Well I never will forget my first deer,a hunter never does.But I will never forget Wilfred coming to help out little old me,to help find my first deer. R.I.P

Delores, Clara, Nicole, Rhea and Rene, we extend to you all our most sincere condolences. To us, losing Wilfred is like losing a family member, so it will be a great loss for us too. As you know our prayers and thoughts are always with you as we go through this difficult time with you. We will always miss him but we will always be here for you whenever you'll need us. We love you guys. To Wilfred's brothers, sisters and extended family members our sincere condolences to you all. We will keep you all in our prayers. RIP great friend!

To Nicole and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family. From your friends at Brownlow.

Sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May God Bless you with Strength and Faith.

Delores, Renee and Girls Please accept our deepest sympathy at this time, we know that this will leave a great void in your lives Sincerely Ron & Annette Kehoe & family

To Nicole, the Lavandier family, and the extended family members, I was so saddened to hear the news of Wilfred's passing. Being high school/university friends with Nicole, I have fond memories of him. The thing that always struck me about him was that despite his rough, tough exterior, his love for his family was larger than life. It was nice to witness the special connection he had with his wife and children. He was a very special soul. So very sorry for your loss.

I would like to express my condolences to all of you, Antoine and I will keep you and your family in our prayers Marion & Antoine Mury

To Tante Delores, Clara, Nicole, Rene and Rhea: We are deeply saddened to hear about Uncle Wilfred’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. Corner Brook, Newfoundland

Dear Delores & Family: Extending condolences during this very difficult time. Wilfred was always ready for a good "chat" at any time. May he Rest in Peace. Linda & Danny Latimer

Our sincere condolences

Our sincere condolences go out to you Delores & your family..also to Wilfred's brothers & sisters. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this saddened time. Chris & Ann Cordell

To the Lavandier Family, I was informed of the passing of Wilfred yesterday while having my weekly call with my Mother, so I wanted to take this time to express my condolences to Wilfred's family.

Thinking of you all at this most difficult time. May the peace of knowing your Dad/Husbands suffering is now over bring you comfort at this time. Hugs to you all.

To the Lavandier family: My deepest sympathy to you as you experience this great loss. Know that I am thinking of you and pray you will always feel his love around you. In prayer, Fr. Neil McKenna, chaplain, St. Martha's Hospital.

It is a very sad time in one's life to lose someone as dear as a spouse or parent. We can only pass on our sympathy and to say how sorry we are to hear of Wilfred's passing, our wishes are with all of you at this time of great sorrow.

All the Levandier Family, We send all your pravers and thoughts. Conrad & Poirier

Delores and family, I was saddened to read Wilfred's obituary in the paper today. I am offering my deepest condolences and will keep you in my prayers. Isabelle

Lavandier Family So sorry for your loss. I went to community college with Nicole and my husband Mark is from Evanston and knows the family a little. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Delores, Rene, Rhea, Nicole & Clara So sorry for your loss. Keep strong and remember all the good times. Thoughts and Prayers are with you all during the next few days. Aimee & Jeremy Landry

Our heartfelt condolences to Delores and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. As I look at the beautiful callouge of pictures, Delores you have lots to look forward to.

Delores,Clara,Nicole,Rene and Rhea We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Wilfred. Wilfred will always be remembered and never forgotten because you hold the most wonderful memories closest to your heart. You will be in our thoughts during and prayers during this very sad time. Lisa,Shawn,Kacie and Karie Boudreau

Delores, Clara, Nicole, Rhea, Rene and families So sorry to hear of Wilfred's passing. May your cherished memories of him sustain you at this difficult time. Take comfort in knowing that he is at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you! Dora Chisholm

To Delores, Clara, Nicole, Rene, and Rhea. We wanted to express our deepest sympathy to you all at the loss of Wilfred. I got to know him very well when I was working at the pharmacy last year. He was a hilarious man and a wonderful person. He used to make me roar with laughter. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. love Gabrielle and Kieron

■This is a really a sad day, and a great loss to all who knew him, may the lord give your family courage and strength through this tough time.

To all the members of Wilfred's family we extend our most sincere condolences for your great loss and most difficult time. We are away from home at this time. Our prayers went for Wilfred and you the family during our celebration of the Eucharist yesterday. May God Bless and give you strength. LOIS & CITES

Delores, Clara, Nicole, Rene, Rhea and families My condolences for the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time! Sherry

Aunt Delores, Clara, Nicole, Rene and Rhea, I'm so sorry about Uncle Wilfred. Our thoughts are with you during these difficult time. Love Les, Heather, Kyle and Nicholas

SOO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOU WILL ALL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYERS. NADINE AND ROBERT

Sympathies to all the Levandier family - our prayers and thoughts are with yous Pauline & Robert Boudreau

Delores,Clara,Nicole,Rene,Rhea&Families, My sympathies are with you in this difficult time. I am very sorry for your loss. I have many cherished memories of Wilfred and your family. You will all be in my prayers, Dean Marchand

Michel Lavandier & Family made a donation to Strait Richmond Palliative Care Society

Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Kathleen & Warren Jeffrey made a donation to Strait Richmond Palliative Care Society

Our thoughts & prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

Pete Kelly made a donation to Strait Richmond Palliative Care Society

Natalie and Derek Grant made a donation to Strait Richmond Palliative Care Society